Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Hello there!
So this is my first time using a blog; one of my friends has a tumblr, but until then, I never really knew what it felt like to express myself through the internet to people who actually want to read what I got to say. Well, I'm a very open person; I can't stand people that got something to say, but never say it to my face; this happens to me a lot. Apparently, nobody wants to say anything to me, but they always got something to say. It gets aggravating, but some people will never learn. I'm an easily judged person because I'm about to turn 19, have a 4 month old, live with my parents and I'm not married. As always, the father of my child wants to do whatever he wants to do and I'm just going to let him do it because I already know that he is going to miss my son and I when we are gone! I know that I haven't done all of the right things in life, but I know how to take care of myself and my baby. I don't like to be looked down at because of my situation; well, I don't look at it like a situation, it's just a life lesson that's teaching me how to be responsible person as well as a mother. So when you read this and "look" at me, don't look at me as a failure; look at me as a human being just trying to make it in society.
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You should be proud that you can do so much on your own. It's great to be able to be independent when you need to be. As for the father, someone else will come along who will appreciate you so much more. I am homored to be your classmate. You are working to better yourself and life for your child. Enjoy the baby and always look forward.
ReplyDeleteHi Joy, I know how it is to be judged and in life no one is perfect. It does not matter what happens in life as long as you are successful in what you want to accomplish. If you love your son and teach him right from wrong and be a good mom then noone can ever see you as a failure. You going to school and taking care of your son is being responsible. You should be proud of what you are going to accomplish. I am in a situation my daughter is 18 and due with my first grandson, my grandson is half black and there are a lot of people who may say omg. I do not care he is my grandbaby and color does not matter although I know people will talk and even people close to me. I do not care what anyone thinks and says, because nothing is going to change the love I have for my kids or my grandbaby. My daughter is beautiful and like you I have told her she can and will be successful and no one can prevent that from happening. You sound like a great person and look forward to knowing you better. Sonya
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